As per the records, the crime of child abuse is commonly committed by the persons known to child like neighbors, family members, maternal and paternal uncles and people living in same colony like shop keepers, peons and daily visitors of one’s home. The relations on which we were taught to believe are now turned into criminals or perpetrators. There was a time when trust over the relations was the soul of human dwellings but today the emotion of trust has completed faded from our society due to the breech of trust by relation like father, teachers, guardians and even loyal servants. Irony to our crime prone society is that our mothers are living in an ambiance full of anxiety and trauma. It is very hard for family to pass that time when their children are away from home. Every moment a mother feels the hands of criminal approaching towards her child in school, tuition center, play ground and market. Crime on our innocent children has bowed down the head of humanity and raised innumerable quarries over the courteousness of our society. It is very intricate to nourish a healthy progeny in such a kind of society.
After sensing the gravity of situation following are the points which can help us in saving our flowers from getting blemished.
(1) In this alarming type of situation, the responsibility of saving the plantlets of our future progeny fall heavily on our mothers. They must never leave their children at the mercy of servants, neighbors or any male relative. Child may be boy or girl.
(2) Ensure regular monitoring of your child in school or tuition centers.
(3)Accompany your child during playing hours because play grounds, parks or any such places remain over crowded with criminals in the face of acquaintances.
(4) Don’t force your child to go alone for some shopping because children are weak and innocent and easily fall a prey to criminals. Criminal can easily kidnap a lonely child.
(6)Monitor your child during family functions and festival celebrations. It is during these occasions that impostures try to take benefit of our innocents.
(7) Develop friendly relations with your children so that they may easily disclose any unusual happening happened with them in schools, tuition centers or any such place.
(8) Give full awareness about happening of crimes to your child.
(9) Make your child aware about apprehension of danger in the society.
(10) Prohibit your child from accepting any eatable like ice-cream, chocolate. Cold drink or any sweet from any alien. Criminal usually use these things to lure any innocent and later on fulfill their illicit and sham full aims.
(11) Train your child to be very vigilant in situations of criminal assail on him or her or on any of his friends. They must be very vigorous in saving their self or their friends from criminals. Every child must be trained enough to complain any unusual happening to police station or to his or her elders.
(12) Spread the awareness of safeguarding one’s child among uneducated section of your locality and your city like servants working in your homes, laborer’s families and people living in slums because your small effort can save a naïve from getting spoiled for ever.